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Do You Need to Relax?

As I have told you before I love my job.  I love being able to work with Junior High students all the time.  I love seeing their lives change when they come to understand who Jesus really is and what He did for them.  I love that they can run, play, laugh and cry.  I love that they will once in awhile say the nicest and most profound things.  I love that even at their young age they can challenge me with questions.  I truly enjoy all of the time that I get to spend with them.
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Then there are those other times that we try to avoid talking about.  Every now and then I just feel like junior high students are trying to attack me.  I feel like they are coming at me from every direction.  I feel like they won’t listen, won’t read their Bible, and basically don’t care about anything I have to say.

It is in these times that I realize that I need to look inside myself.  I need to check myself to see what is really bugging me.  Many times it is the simple fact that I need to get away and relax for awhile.  This week I took a few days off from work while my children were on spring break.  My only goal is to rest and relax with my family.

I would challenge you to make sure you find time to rest, relax, and retreat.  For some of you this may mean taking vacation time.  Others may just need to take an afternoon off.  Some of us may just need to sleep for a day.  Whatever you, your body, and most importantly your Spirit needs, make sure you do it.  Find the time to give your body the rest it needs, so that you will be more prepared to point students to Jesus.

Do it now!

Fan the Flame

I had a great weekend this weekend working with junior high students.  Over the past several weeks we have been talking about ways to strengthen our relationship with God.  We’ve talked about things that can help us come to know Him more.  We’ve talked about how a relationship with Him will help us avoid temptation.

This weekend though we just kind of laid it on the line.  We talked about how it wasn’t good enough to just know what we were supposed to do.  We can’t be satisfied with just having knowledge. It isn’t enough to just know what the right choice is to make.

I kind of look at it like a job interview.  If you’ve ever conducted an interview before, then I am pretty sure you know what I am talking about.  People come into an interview trying to make sure they give all the right answers.  This is how you get the job.   You give the right answers and they hire you. The problem with this is that many people aren’t even concerned with following through with what they said in an interview.  They will just do whatever they want after they get the job.  You see, it doesn’t matter if you have the right answers unless you follow through and do what you say.

This weekend we discussed this very concept with students.  We have some very intelligent students, and some of them know a lot about scripture.  I am very excited to tell you that, but knowing the answers is only the beginning. We have to do something about it.

James 2:22 says, “You see, his faith and his actions worked together. His actions made his faith complete.”

We have to put our faith into action. I love the old song that says,  “Faith without works is like a screen door on a submarine.”  What good is it to know the right answers if you don’t do something about it?  What does it matter if you know right from wrong if you don’t do what is right?  What good does it to do for us to come together and make a plan if we don’t put it into action.

A big goal of our junior high ministry is to set up students to live out their faith.  They have to choose to do that.  We can just fan the flame. I love starting fires, but we must do things to keep the fire going in the lives of our students.

I would love to hear what you have done to Fan the Flame within your students.

What does Longevity look like?

In

localized church ministry there is a pattern of people staying at a church for a few years and then moving on.  What does this mean?  Does it really make a difference how long you are at a church?  Is it easier or harder to go from church to church?  These are all good questions that I hear from time to time.  This is a subject that everybody seems to have an opinion on as well.

 

Longevity in a specific local ministry is important, and here is why.

1.  Longevity forces us to be truthful.

When we are focused on being somewhere for a long time we have to then deal with issues as they come.  To many times we focus on the short-term and do not deal with issues.  We have to make sure we don’t neglect people or issues.  Issues will build into larger problems if you are staying in a ministry for a long period of time.  We must be intentional about dealing with issues immediately.

2.  Focus on relationships that will last.

Especially in Junior High Ministry we only get to have a student for a few years, so how are we supposed to build relationships that will last with students and adults?

One good thing to do is to look ahead.  Try to build relationships with adults that have students already out of your ministry, and build relationships with people whose students haven’t yet entered your ministry.  Especially when dealing with Youth Sponsors and Volunteers it is good to make sure it isn’t just parents.  Parents are great, but will they leave your ministry when there student does.  Try to mix your relationships up, so that they will last.

With students we have to communicate that we are here to stay.  Students in many churches are used to seeing youth pastors come and go.  We have to prove to them that we care for them beyond the doors of the church.  We have to earn their trust, so they will open up to us.  This takes time.

3.  Plan, Plan, Plan!

Don’t fly by the seat of your pants.  Plan ahead this communicates something very important to students and adults alike.  If you plan ahead they feel prepared and safe.  Parents trust because they have known what was going to happen.  Students are excited because their parents will let them do things, and you are excited because everybody else is excited.

We also need to plan our teaching material.  Don’t just grab something last-minute.  Take the time to decide what needs talked about.

Longevity is very important in ministry.  This could mean 5, 10, or even 40 years in a specific ministry.  We have to make sure we don’t get to comfortable, but build strong relationships.

Junior High Ministry: Who Cares?

Unfortunately I have spoke to too many Student Ministers who just feel that Junior High Ministry is an afterthought.  Junior High Ministry is something we have to do along with our High School Ministry.  We do it just to keep people happy.  Many times I will sit down and ask different Ministers what they are doing with Junior High Ministry?  The answer I get is usually something like, “I don’t have time to do Junior High Ministry.  I’m too busy, so I just let somebody else do it.”   These are the same Ministers who struggle to get High School students to go below the surface.

High School students many times have already made their choice as to how important a relationship with God is to them, and it is harder to get them to let God in.  If we help a Junior High Student build a foundation of faith we get High School student who, while still making mistakes and errors in judgement, will also have a base line for their decision making.

If you want a growing, thriving, serving, worshiping, and loving High School youth group then focus on your Junior High Students.  Teach them about worship.  Teach them about service.  Show them how to thrive in ministry.  Love them.  This is what helps them learn and grow into the students God wants them to be.  Challenge your Junior High students to be followers of Jesus and you will end up with High School students who are followers of Jesus.

Here are a couple of things for us to understand in ministry.

1.  Be Ministry Minded

What good does it do to have the greatest High School minister in the world if your children’s, Worship, and Senior Ministers don’t really try that hard.  You must have a good team.  We all have special areas we are focused on, but we must see the big picture.  We must care about all the a

reas and ages of ministry.

2.  Communicate.

If you have the opportunity to talk with the person who works with the area younger than yours then take advantage of the opportunity.  Let them know what areas your incoming students are lacking in.  Maybe it is discipline.  Maybe it is knowing the books of the Bible.  Maybe it is knowing what it means to be a follower of Jesus.  Whatever could be communicated better is what you should talk to them about.  It may be an awkward conversation at first, but I believe it is a conversation that will produce fruit in your ministry.

3.  Follow up

Wow!  I cannot emphasize enough the importance of follow up and encouragement.  If you are a Junior High Minister and you are communicating with your Children’s Minister then make sure you follow up.  Let them know when things are working well.  Tell this person what you really appreciate about the work they do with the students heading into your ministry.  This will only be to your benefit in the long run.  If you are working with a High School Minister and they tell you about some issues.  Follow up with them, and let them know about things you are doing to try to improve areas of your ministry.  We should be concerned with the understanding a student has when they leave our ministry.

These are some of the things that can make your Junior High Ministry a significant part of your church.  It is more than just Junior High Ministry, it is a ministry of God.  To answer the question in the title of this post, “We all should!”  Junior High Ministry can be one of the areas of highest growth for your church, and their can be great development of followers of Jesus in this area.

We must do whatever we can to develop followers of Jesus!

The Big Decision!

Everyday we are faced with choices.  What am I going to work on today?  What is the most important thing for me to focus on today?  Where do I start?

I was sitting in my office this morning having these very thoughts go through my head.  We are all very busy, and we have to make choices everyday.  It seems like on a weekly, or even daily, basis I have to put something off because it is not on the top of my priority list.  Choices are what plan my day.  I choose what I am going to do and when I am going to do it.

Making good choices is one of the keys to what we do.  As Junior High Ministers and volunteers we try to encourage Junior High students to make good choices.  We talk about the choices they make at school, home, and especially with their relationship with God.  Choices may be one of the biggest topics we talk about because there is always a choice to be made.

A few weeks ago at our church we hosted a Decision Weekend.  I have never understood why we needed to have a decision weekend.  I always think if somebody wants to choose to follow Jesus then they will just do it.  What is holding them back.  I recognize that I am not shy or timid in any way, so there are some people that look at this in a different way than I do.

We hosted Decision Weekend last year as well.  The church staff is at the church building on Saturday during the day, and then we have an extra emphasis on Sunday to make decisions as well.  The idea behind this was to help provide an easy opportunity to choose to follow Jesus.  If somebody wanted to make a decision they could come at anytime and we would help them with that decision.  We have hosted these weekends twice now and we have had over 100 decisions for Jesus.

I don’t know about you, but when I look at that I am amazed at the work God is doing.  See that is 100 people that just need something special to help them make the choice to follow the leading of Jesus.  They needed the right opportunity to make the choice they knew was needed.

In Junior High Ministry I spend a lot of time counseling students on the choices they are making, but there is not a choice more important than choosing to follow Jesus.  You see God speaks to us through scripture and shares with us about the choices we make.

Matthew 7:13 says, “You can enter God’s Kingdom only through the narrow gate. The highway to hell is broad, and its gate is wide for the many who choose that way.” (NLT)  Many people of the world choose the highway to Hell.

Romans 6:16 says, “Don’t you realize that you become the slave of whatever you choose to obey? You can be a slave to sin, which leads to death, or you can choose to obey God, which leads to righteous living.” (NLT)  It is a choice we make who or what we follow, and who or what we are slaves too.  The choices we make matter.

Many of our students need help and encouragement when it comes to making these choices.  We can’t choose for them, but we can support them along the way.

What do you think?  Will you choose to start a discussion about this topic?  If you will then I hope you choose to comment right here on my blog.

 

How important are big events and trips in ministry…Continued!

I received several responses to my post earlier this week.  It was nice to be able to interact with some of you on this topic.  I received emails,  comments on facebook, and comments on this page.  Thank you to all who communicated on this subject.  I would still love to hear more from you all.  I would like to just take a few minutes to discuss your comments.

One of you shared about the fact that she had experienced these types of trips and events.  She loved getting the chance to bond and have fun.  She spoke of the stories and memories she has now because of being a part of trips that helped her grow in her Faith.

I would say this is one of the goals of going on trips.  Going on these trips is a way for us to truly get to know each other and just focus on God.  These memories are what make me think of how much I love spending time with God.  He brings me such Joy when I am truly focused on him.

Another of you shared a different side of things where every student does not enjoy or grow on trips or in big events.  Some of our students need the smaller group and shorter time frame.

I must admit I had somewhat overlooked this thought when I was writing earlier this week.  We must keep balance and realize that every student will not be reached with everything we do.  Sometimes I deal with parents that just want to have everything be just what their student wants.  That isn’t going to happen.  I encourage parents that if their student wants to have a Christian Party then they should throw a party.  Don’t be limited to just what the church offers.  God can impact students anywhere, not just at church events.  Options need to available for students to grow however they fit in.

Lastly one of you shared about working the soil and continuing to plant seed.  You shared the idea that we just keep planting seeds through these events and trips and never give up.  God will bring the growth if we continue to plant and water the seeds.

This was a great analogy of what we are talking about here.  If we look in Matthew 13 we see Jesus sharing the parable of the farmer scattering seed.  In this parable he shares how seeds fall in different places just like our messages fall on different hearts.  We must continue to scatter the seeds though.  I love how Jesus explains this parable in Matthew 13:18-23

18 “Now listen to the explanation of the parable about the farmer planting seeds: 19 The seed that fell on the footpath represents those who hear the message about the Kingdom and don’t understand it. Then the evil one comes and snatches away the seed that was planted in their hearts. 20 The seed on the rocky soil represents those who hear the message and immediately receive it with joy. 21 But since they don’t have deep roots, they don’t last long. They fall away as soon as they have problems or are persecuted for believing God’s word. 22 The seed that fell among the thorns represents those who hear God’s word, but all too quickly the message is crowded out by the worries of this life and the lure of wealth, so no fruit is produced. 23 The seed that fell on good soil represents those who truly hear and understand God’s word and produce a harvest of thirty, sixty, or even a hundred times as much as had been planted!”

Here we see that all of the seeds that we plant (or scatter) are not going to grow like we hoped they would.  We must not quit trying though because those seeds that land in good rich soil will grow to produce an incredible harvest.

In my last post I repeatedly asked the same question over and over again and here it is one more time.  Do big events and trips really make that big of a difference in junior high ministry?

My answer would be absolutely yes.  These events and trips must be well planned and organized, but if done well we can spread seed in places we may not have reached before.  If we do this then student’s eyes, ears, and hearts will open to God’s teaching.  We must be faithful and provide students with these opportunities that can effect them for the rest of their lives.