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Preparation! Preparation! Preparation!

How do you prepare?  What do you do? How much time do you spend?   What resources do you use?  Who do you trust?  Who do you disregard?  Preparing for a message, lesson, class, devotion, or a deep conversation can be hard work.  Where do you turn when you need to prep.

Before we go any farther let me tell you that I know as well as you do that we turn to the Bible first.  This is a no-brainer.  If you don’t already know this then I would be really surprised that you were reading this blog.  Now that we have that out of the way lets talk about your preparation.  I don’t know what it looks like for you, so let me tell you some things I think should be done in preparation.

1.  Be relevant

In working with junior high students for the past 12 years, I have come to realize that times change.  We must make sure that our illustrations, stories, visuals, and even our topics are relevant to today’s junior high students.

It is easy to use illustrations about things that we connected to as children.  I would love to use illustrations from one of my favorite tv shows growing up called “The Brady Bunch” (FYI…I only saw re-runs). This would be ridiculous though.  My students have never even heard of the show (trust me I have asked.).  I must stay up to date so that they can connect with my stories.

We all must stay up to date.  Language changes.  Phrases change.  Life changes.  Never just pull something out and go with it.  This goes for any material you might purchase as well.  Always make sure that any illustrations or games they offer you are up to date.

2.  Study

Too many times I have sat down to prepare a lesson and worked out a game and illustration for a scripture I have found and then I don’t spend much time really learning about the scripture myself.  I have been the most effective when I learn something from a scripture and share that truth or lesson with my junior high students.  It is personal that way.

Junior highers are very smart, and they can tell when we are really honest, open, and passionate about something.  We must make sure that our lessons and words come from our heart.  Make sure that you own these scriptures instead of just giving a speech.

3.  Be consistent

Find a time and place to do your lesson prep each week and be consistent about it.  Many times we allow our prep time to be put off due to more pressing needs, but much like our personal time with God we must make an appointment for this.  Put it on your schedule and hold to it.  I would suggest that it probably shouldn’t be Saturday night either.

This will allow you to make your prep time a priority.  Making this time a priority will set it in your mind and heart that you must be focused.  It will also tell co-workers and others around you how important this time is to you.  Be prepared to put this on your calender and be as firm about it as you can.  It sounds strange right now, but if you will thank yourself if you give yourself a dedicated time to do this each week.

In junior high ministry we always have to make sure we are preparing each week, but I believe if we follow these basic concepts it will help us in our preparation for communicating with students.  What do you think?  How do you prepare?  Is your routine different?  Let us know!!

The Word

Junior High Ministry Rocks!

I would love to say that and then just leave you alone for the rest of the day, but I have a little bit more I want to share with you today.

Over the past 2 and 1/2 years we have been really trying to narrow our focus at our church.  We took the Reveal study in 2009 and realized that we really need to focus our group on Bible engagement.  So, we did that.  In all areas from Children’s to Junior High to High School to Adults, we focused on Bible engagement.

For many people including our junior high students this meant that they tried a year long Bible reading plan.  We offered many different options from reading the entire Bible, reading the New Testament, and even reading a book at a time.

We got great results in the entire church, but in junior high ministry the results astounded me.  I found that the year long plans were not effective at all. But If I would assign weekly reading, our students responded great.

I would provide certain chapters to read daily and have a goal for each week.  Over Christmas break one year, our students read the books of John, Romans and Ephesians.  They loved it.  It created conversations about scripture.  Questions started popping up and they would answer them for each other.  It was the perfect small group discussion starter.  Also, many of our other students were being challenged to  try it out as well because all of their friends were doing it.  It was positive peer pressure at its best.

This past weekend I took my students to CIY Believe and the it was call the Word Tour.

This was by far one of the best messages from the Believe team.  They created an amazing atmosphere for Biblee engagement.  They always create a great worship experience and have great speakers, but this year I don’t think the focus was on anything other than connecting students with the Word.  This start in John 1:1-2.

In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.  He was with God in the beginning.

and then they moved on with John 1:14

The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the one and only Son, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth.

This brought the students to the realization that engaging with the Bible is a way of communicating with God and building a relationship with His son, Jesus.

At believe they showed us a history of the Bible and even had video footage from places in the Bible.

I believe for our junior high ministry this couldn’t have come at a better time to drive our students to Scripture.  We must make sure that we aren’t presenting only what we want to talk about, but we need to let the Word of God Speak!

Surviving Junior High Ministry

Many times when we talk about surviving in ministry we think of all the people we deal with on a daily basis.  We think of all the emails, phone calls, text messages, and visits we get regarding our ministry.  I have never seen more people trying to survive in ministry than I am seeing this year.

Leading a junior high ministry always has the potential to be overwhelming. It can run us over if we aren’t careful. Bbut we can also manage these things by choosing when to say no.  We have control even when we feel like things are getting out of control.  We can always choose to say no.

This year I see people trying to survive in ministry dealing with something that they cannot completely control.  Many  are dealing with illness this year.  I hear time and time again about fellow junior high ministers filling in for their senior pastor because he got sick.  I hear them talk about an extra work load they took on because somebody else has been out of the office for several weeks do to a sudden illness.  Even more than that, I hear about many coming down with an illness and trying to make sure ministry still happens while we are stuck recuperating.

It is difficult to deal with a situation where you have an event or meeting planned, and then the day it is supposed to happen you come down with an illness or a personal emergency comes up.  This year it doesn’t seem like people are getting sick for a day or two either.  It seems to be lasting over a week in many cases.  What do you do in this situation?

Do we need to be prepared to get sick?  Do we need to have a clone of ourselves ready to fill in at the last moment?  Do you cancel if you are sick?  Should we have to fight through the illness and keep working?   What should we do?

I’m not here to provide you with an answer, but I want help with this situation.  What do you do?

Expect the Unexpected

I love teaching junior high students.  I love that every once in awhile something clicks in  their head and their heart.  I love that I can work on a plan that will help them come to learn a truth about Jesus, and that truth can change their life.   I love planning our whole service for Sunday.  I love thinking of activities and strategies to draw students in.  All of this is part of the reasons I love junior high ministry.

One of my favorite things about junior high students is when they do things or respond to things unexpectedly.  Sometimes we work with these students and we don’t expect a lot of depth and understanding of Bible study.  This isn’t always the case though.

In our junior high ministry we have been studying Romans 12 on Wednesday nights.  We haven’t just studied it for a week.  We have been studying Romans 12 for four weeks already, and we probably have at least two weeks left.  We sit down for our study and read Romans 12, then we figure out what God is trying to tell us.  Our students discuss and disagree about a some of the topics brought up.  Some of them quote other scripture while we are discussing it, and they all learn a lot.  At the end of the night our students don’t even realize that I haven’t talked very much.  I will ask them questions and guide them through a small section of scripture, but they are the ones figuring it out.

I challenge our students to read Romans 12 everyday during the week.  This will take them about a minute and a half each day.  I have challenged them to think on this scripture all day, and carry on a conversation with God about it.

Many times I feel that we need to expect more from our Junior High Students.  We need to plan on them being excited about reading scripture.  We need to plan on them being excited about service.  We need to treat them like the children of God they are.  God wants to use them now.  God wants to communicate with them now.

Sometimes we have to just let go and let God.

Music That Works for Us

This weekend I was able to attend an amazing Concert with some awesome friends.  We went to Winter Jam

on Saturday Night.  It was an interesting night for us because they call it Winter Jam, but the weather was 65 – 70 degrees outside.  That is definitely my kind of winter.Also a mother of one of our Junior High Students was the volunteer coordinator for the event this year, so we had several  people just volunteering and not participating in the concert.

We were blessed to worship with some amazing artists.  Building 429

, Peter Furl er , and Skillet were some of my personal favorites of the night. Several junior high students and their families attended. My son was telling me about his favorite part (he is 6), and he said it was Building 429, Skillet, and Nick Hall (the speaker).  I thought it was cool that the speaker was powerful enough to reach us all.  God uses people in amazing ways.

We advertised this as an event for families to attend since it only cost $10 and only 30 minutes from our church.  I saw this as a great opportunity for families to experience this together.  The response was awesome, and everybody seemed to really enjoy the evening.

I had several parents talk to me about the event when it was over.  They talked about how many of the bands reminded them of non-Christian bands that they listen to all the time.  This was a great chance for me to talk about the difference Christian music can make in their lives and the lives of their junior high students.

Music is a powerful tool that the world uses to fill our minds with their agenda and worldview.  We have to be careful not only what we put into our minds and hearts, but we also have to really think about what our students listen too.

A few weeks ago I was speaking to a pastor about an upcoming concert/event I am working on.  We were talking about the plans and the timing of the event and I told him we were hosting Jamie Grace

and her mom for part of this event.  His response was, “Who is Jamie Grace?”  I understand that not every person will like every Christian artist, but we need to be aware of what is going on.  How can we expect our students to know about Christian music if we don’t share it with them or even listen to it ourselves?

I work hard to make sure I know about all different types of music because we have students that listen to things that I have never heard of.  Once great resource I would share with you for Christian Music is interlinc

.  They have a program called YLO that gives you the opportunity to receive a variety of Christian Music at a reasonable price.

Christian music is a valuable tool that I use in ministry to Junior High Students and their families, and I hope you will evaluate your time, budget, and need to see that it can be a great asset for you as well.  How do you use Christian music?