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Going Back to School Online with Middle School Students

Wow!  Summer is crazy with so many events and activities going on.  We are catching students as they get back from vacation and hosting awesome back to school events.  We are still recovering from Camp, CIY MIX and Missions Trips.  We have tried to have the most productive summer that we could with the students that were not on vacation out of town, but now it is time for back to school.

School is starting, and where does that leave us in junior high/middle school ministry.  Our time is limited with school in session, but this can be one of the most effective ministry times for our students.  We start new programs as our students go back to school.  At our church we start our Wednesday night service back up in a few weeks. This is a great tool to keep students connected during the week.

It is easy for them to get distracted with the ways of the world when they head back to school, but they can also be an incredible influence on their friends if they just try.

Students head back to school and they want to reconnect with friends.  They have friends they haven’t hung out with for a few months, and they want to do things after school and on weekends.  Sometimes this will keep them away from church or youth group at times, so how do we stay connected with them as they head back to school?

Social Media is an incredible tool for us to use to stay connected as the business of school settles in.  We can use social media to give easy reminders to our students, and even better to their parents.  Recently I have been checking to see what kind of responses I can get from students and parents through social media, and I find that parents (some of whom I never talk to or see) are very connected with what I put on social media.  I believe we must take advantage of it.

Whether we are checking on a student we haven’t seen in a while or we are sending out a reminder we need to stay connected.  Social media can devour a lot of

our time if we aren’t careful, but if we are deliberate with it we can truly impact our students and their families through social media.  Be a voice to your students that that don’t just hear or see once a week.

It is like a lot of things in life.  We can either embrace this technology and further the Kingdom, or we can avoid it.  I choose to further the Kingdom.

What about you?  Do you have any great ideas to share about staying connected with students going back to school.  We would love to hear about it.  Share in the comments below.

CIY MIX

Here is a post about our recent trip to CIY MIX

 

 

The Word

Junior High Ministry Rocks!

I would love to say that and then just leave you alone for the rest of the day, but I have a little bit more I want to share with you today.

Over the past 2 and 1/2 years we have been really trying to narrow our focus at our church.  We took the Reveal study in 2009 and realized that we really need to focus our group on Bible engagement.  So, we did that.  In all areas from Children’s to Junior High to High School to Adults, we focused on Bible engagement.

For many people including our junior high students this meant that they tried a year long Bible reading plan.  We offered many different options from reading the entire Bible, reading the New Testament, and even reading a book at a time.

We got great results in the entire church, but in junior high ministry the results astounded me.  I found that the year long plans were not effective at all. But If I would assign weekly reading, our students responded great.

I would provide certain chapters to read daily and have a goal for each week.  Over Christmas break one year, our students read the books of John, Romans and Ephesians.  They loved it.  It created conversations about scripture.  Questions started popping up and they would answer them for each other.  It was the perfect small group discussion starter.  Also, many of our other students were being challenged to  try it out as well because all of their friends were doing it.  It was positive peer pressure at its best.

This past weekend I took my students to CIY Believe and the it was call the Word Tour.

This was by far one of the best messages from the Believe team.  They created an amazing atmosphere for Biblee engagement.  They always create a great worship experience and have great speakers, but this year I don’t think the focus was on anything other than connecting students with the Word.  This start in John 1:1-2.

In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.  He was with God in the beginning.

and then they moved on with John 1:14

The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the one and only Son, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth.

This brought the students to the realization that engaging with the Bible is a way of communicating with God and building a relationship with His son, Jesus.

At believe they showed us a history of the Bible and even had video footage from places in the Bible.

I believe for our junior high ministry this couldn’t have come at a better time to drive our students to Scripture.  We must make sure that we aren’t presenting only what we want to talk about, but we need to let the Word of God Speak!

How important are big events and trips in ministry…Continued!

I received several responses to my post earlier this week.  It was nice to be able to interact with some of you on this topic.  I received emails,  comments on facebook, and comments on this page.  Thank you to all who communicated on this subject.  I would still love to hear more from you all.  I would like to just take a few minutes to discuss your comments.

One of you shared about the fact that she had experienced these types of trips and events.  She loved getting the chance to bond and have fun.  She spoke of the stories and memories she has now because of being a part of trips that helped her grow in her Faith.

I would say this is one of the goals of going on trips.  Going on these trips is a way for us to truly get to know each other and just focus on God.  These memories are what make me think of how much I love spending time with God.  He brings me such Joy when I am truly focused on him.

Another of you shared a different side of things where every student does not enjoy or grow on trips or in big events.  Some of our students need the smaller group and shorter time frame.

I must admit I had somewhat overlooked this thought when I was writing earlier this week.  We must keep balance and realize that every student will not be reached with everything we do.  Sometimes I deal with parents that just want to have everything be just what their student wants.  That isn’t going to happen.  I encourage parents that if their student wants to have a Christian Party then they should throw a party.  Don’t be limited to just what the church offers.  God can impact students anywhere, not just at church events.  Options need to available for students to grow however they fit in.

Lastly one of you shared about working the soil and continuing to plant seed.  You shared the idea that we just keep planting seeds through these events and trips and never give up.  God will bring the growth if we continue to plant and water the seeds.

This was a great analogy of what we are talking about here.  If we look in Matthew 13 we see Jesus sharing the parable of the farmer scattering seed.  In this parable he shares how seeds fall in different places just like our messages fall on different hearts.  We must continue to scatter the seeds though.  I love how Jesus explains this parable in Matthew 13:18-23

18 “Now listen to the explanation of the parable about the farmer planting seeds: 19 The seed that fell on the footpath represents those who hear the message about the Kingdom and don’t understand it. Then the evil one comes and snatches away the seed that was planted in their hearts. 20 The seed on the rocky soil represents those who hear the message and immediately receive it with joy. 21 But since they don’t have deep roots, they don’t last long. They fall away as soon as they have problems or are persecuted for believing God’s word. 22 The seed that fell among the thorns represents those who hear God’s word, but all too quickly the message is crowded out by the worries of this life and the lure of wealth, so no fruit is produced. 23 The seed that fell on good soil represents those who truly hear and understand God’s word and produce a harvest of thirty, sixty, or even a hundred times as much as had been planted!”

Here we see that all of the seeds that we plant (or scatter) are not going to grow like we hoped they would.  We must not quit trying though because those seeds that land in good rich soil will grow to produce an incredible harvest.

In my last post I repeatedly asked the same question over and over again and here it is one more time.  Do big events and trips really make that big of a difference in junior high ministry?

My answer would be absolutely yes.  These events and trips must be well planned and organized, but if done well we can spread seed in places we may not have reached before.  If we do this then student’s eyes, ears, and hearts will open to God’s teaching.  We must be faithful and provide students with these opportunities that can effect them for the rest of their lives.

 

How important are big events and trips in ministry?

This past weekend I got to attend a weekend retreat with some Jr. High Students.  We had a great time.  The program was amazing as usual, but I was once again left with the same question in my mind.  Do big events and trips really make that big of a difference in junior high ministry?

It is interesting that we have some students who don’t show up for a month, but then register to go on trips with us.  I have other students who are here every week and will never go on a trip with us.  It is the same way with large events at our church, some will come and others will not.  I used to get frustrated at this, but I finally realized that this was out of my control.  I also still had the same question.  Do big events and trips really make that big of a difference in junior high ministry?

I love the fact that I get to spend a large quantity of time with students on trips.  It can be overwhelming to work with students when you only get to see them for 1, 2, or 3 hours a week.  This means when I know I can get 24 -48 hours with students on a weekend I get really excited.  I try to take advantage of all that time and encourage students when they do something good.  Correct them when I see some bad choices being made, and let them see me in real life instead of just on Sunday or Wednesday.  Then there is the flip side of all the extra time spent together.  There are students who can really get on your nerves in a very short time, so I still have the same question.  Do big events and trips really make that big of a difference in junior high ministry?

I always enjoy watching a student learn responsibility or compassion when we are together on a trip.  I love watching a student think about the fact that they really want a t-shirt, but they only have five dollars left and we have not bought supper yet.  I love to see them learning how to make decisions about life skills.  I love seeing how some students will reach out to others when they are hurting, or when they have made a bad choice.  This past weekend I had a student who spent all his money before supper, and another student reached out to him and bought him something.  I had another student who decided to hang out with a certain boy because that boy had a tendency to wander away and be by himself.  That is true compassion.  Then there are other students who just never get it.  But my question still stands.  Do big events and trips really make that big of a difference in junior high ministry?

Trips can be exciting as students sing in the van.  Big events can be great as students invite tons of friends to come have a great time.  Trips can be awesome as we can learn so much about a group of students.  Big events can be awesome as we introduce somebody to Jesus for the first time.  I love these opportunities so much, but I still wonder about that question.  Do big events and trips really make that big of a difference in junior high ministry?

What do you think?  What is your opinion on this question?  Don’t just sit there and think about it!  Give me your answer and keep the discussion going. Leave a comment with your opinion!

 

Staying Connected in Junior High MInistry

How do you stay connected in Junior High Ministry?

The Life of a Junior High youth worker can be extremely frustrating when it comes to staying connected.  We have to connect to students, parents, our volunteers, our church, and other youth ministers.  It can be overwhelming to try to juggle it all.

I can tell you right now that I am organizing a camp for next weekend.  I just helped kick off a small group campaign for our church.  I got to preach to the adults on Sunday.  I have a CIY event in a couple of weeks.  I am working on a marriage retreat and decision weekend for our church, and we are revamping our bulletin, newsletter and website.  Let me tell you communication and connection are definitely a top priority for me right now.

You’ve been there before.  You work all day answering emails, texts, Facebook messages, and calls just to get home and keep on doing the same thing.  It is difficult to stay connected to everyone you need to communicate with.

I would challenge you to prioritize your communication.  Maybe you need to schedule communication.  Scheduling this time makes it a priority and also gives you time to accomplish what is most important.  Here are some areas you might want to schedule:

  • Facebook/Twitter Time (limit your time)
  • Emails (schedule time 1 or 2 times a day to read and follow-up)
  • Phone Calls (as necessary, choose an appropriate time of day)
  • In office Communication (schedule time to chat with co-workers about ministry)
  • Blogs (plan time to investigate new strategies and best practices)
  • Prayer (yes….schedule some specific prayer time with God)

These things may seem basic to you, but if you don’t schedule time for connection and communication then it can be extremely overwhelming.  Don’t exhaust yourself trying to keep up, instead be proactive and plan ahead!

What do you think?  How do you plan and schedule your connection and communication?  I would love to hear your comments!