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Encounter: New Junior High Series

Ministry can be a very lonely place.  Many times we feel we are left on an island by ourselves to coral all these junior high students and try to teach them something. Some of us get paid to do this and others of us volunteer to do it. Either way, we all need help.

Junior high students need to be loved and need to be heard. They need to learn at their own level and pace. They need a place they can feel safe. They need a lot of stuff, and they expect you to give them what they need.

We here at JuniorHighMinistry.org would like to help you out a little bit. We love that we have a place where communication can happen about what life is like in junior high ministry. Our blog is here to provide not only relevant truths about working with junior high students, but we would also like it to be a place where you could share your story in the comments. So, go ahead and leave us a comment.

We are also expanding in another area. This week we are making some curriculum available for purchase. We have brought together some great writers who work specifically with junior high students. Many others offer junior high curriculum that is made for high school students and can be adapted to junior high. From experience, I can tell you that this doesn’t always work out.  We want to provide you with material that is totally age specific.

Each lesson includes a fun opening game, complete teaching, small group discussion questions, powerpoint slides and more. You can completely customize the lessons to fit your particular group and setting.

The first series we are releasing this week is called “encounter”, so check it out. Hopefully it will make you feel that you are not alone in ministry.

 

Preparation! Preparation! Preparation!

How do you prepare?  What do you do? How much time do you spend?   What resources do you use?  Who do you trust?  Who do you disregard?  Preparing for a message, lesson, class, devotion, or a deep conversation can be hard work.  Where do you turn when you need to prep.

Before we go any farther let me tell you that I know as well as you do that we turn to the Bible first.  This is a no-brainer.  If you don’t already know this then I would be really surprised that you were reading this blog.  Now that we have that out of the way lets talk about your preparation.  I don’t know what it looks like for you, so let me tell you some things I think should be done in preparation.

1.  Be relevant

In working with junior high students for the past 12 years, I have come to realize that times change.  We must make sure that our illustrations, stories, visuals, and even our topics are relevant to today’s junior high students.

It is easy to use illustrations about things that we connected to as children.  I would love to use illustrations from one of my favorite tv shows growing up called “The Brady Bunch” (FYI…I only saw re-runs). This would be ridiculous though.  My students have never even heard of the show (trust me I have asked.).  I must stay up to date so that they can connect with my stories.

We all must stay up to date.  Language changes.  Phrases change.  Life changes.  Never just pull something out and go with it.  This goes for any material you might purchase as well.  Always make sure that any illustrations or games they offer you are up to date.

2.  Study

Too many times I have sat down to prepare a lesson and worked out a game and illustration for a scripture I have found and then I don’t spend much time really learning about the scripture myself.  I have been the most effective when I learn something from a scripture and share that truth or lesson with my junior high students.  It is personal that way.

Junior highers are very smart, and they can tell when we are really honest, open, and passionate about something.  We must make sure that our lessons and words come from our heart.  Make sure that you own these scriptures instead of just giving a speech.

3.  Be consistent

Find a time and place to do your lesson prep each week and be consistent about it.  Many times we allow our prep time to be put off due to more pressing needs, but much like our personal time with God we must make an appointment for this.  Put it on your schedule and hold to it.  I would suggest that it probably shouldn’t be Saturday night either.

This will allow you to make your prep time a priority.  Making this time a priority will set it in your mind and heart that you must be focused.  It will also tell co-workers and others around you how important this time is to you.  Be prepared to put this on your calender and be as firm about it as you can.  It sounds strange right now, but if you will thank yourself if you give yourself a dedicated time to do this each week.

In junior high ministry we always have to make sure we are preparing each week, but I believe if we follow these basic concepts it will help us in our preparation for communicating with students.  What do you think?  How do you prepare?  Is your routine different?  Let us know!!

Staying Connected in Junior High MInistry

How do you stay connected in Junior High Ministry?

The Life of a Junior High youth worker can be extremely frustrating when it comes to staying connected.  We have to connect to students, parents, our volunteers, our church, and other youth ministers.  It can be overwhelming to try to juggle it all.

I can tell you right now that I am organizing a camp for next weekend.  I just helped kick off a small group campaign for our church.  I got to preach to the adults on Sunday.  I have a CIY event in a couple of weeks.  I am working on a marriage retreat and decision weekend for our church, and we are revamping our bulletin, newsletter and website.  Let me tell you communication and connection are definitely a top priority for me right now.

You’ve been there before.  You work all day answering emails, texts, Facebook messages, and calls just to get home and keep on doing the same thing.  It is difficult to stay connected to everyone you need to communicate with.

I would challenge you to prioritize your communication.  Maybe you need to schedule communication.  Scheduling this time makes it a priority and also gives you time to accomplish what is most important.  Here are some areas you might want to schedule:

  • Facebook/Twitter Time (limit your time)
  • Emails (schedule time 1 or 2 times a day to read and follow-up)
  • Phone Calls (as necessary, choose an appropriate time of day)
  • In office Communication (schedule time to chat with co-workers about ministry)
  • Blogs (plan time to investigate new strategies and best practices)
  • Prayer (yes….schedule some specific prayer time with God)

These things may seem basic to you, but if you don’t schedule time for connection and communication then it can be extremely overwhelming.  Don’t exhaust yourself trying to keep up, instead be proactive and plan ahead!

What do you think?  How do you plan and schedule your connection and communication?  I would love to hear your comments!